The Controller2019-09-25T03:37:11+08:00

The Controller

May be described as…

  • A powerful leader (“the boss,” king/queen, a politician)
  • An authority figure
  • Using money to control people, events, and circumstances
  • Hoarding money
  • Having everything they desire, but never feeling complete, comfortable, or at peace
  • Self-interested
  • Lacking the things that money can’t buy
  • Fearful
  • Unfulfilled; chronic “not-enoughness’ – despite their apparent success

Strengths and talents

  • Responsible
  • Leadership skills
  • Powerful


  • “Power isn’t everything. It’s the only thing!”
  • “I’m the boss!”

Challenges/ weakness

  • Being authoritarian
  • Inability to delegate
  • Controlling
  • Rigid
  • Manipulative
  • Fearful
  • Oppressive
  • Prone to anger
  • Highly critical and judgmental
  • Aggressive
  • Unforgiving
  • Secretive
  • Highly materialistic

Lesson to learn

  • Understanding that money will not save or heal them.
  • How to heal their wounds.
  • How to ask for what they need rather than using manipulation to get it.
  • To understand there is enough for everyone.
  • To understand and transform their fear so they can learn to feel safe.

Ultimate life goal / core desire

  • Ultimate control
  • To create a prosperous, successful empire

Greatest fear

  • Chaos, being overthrown
  • Loss of control