The Caregiver2020-02-06T16:05:25+08:00

The Caregiver

May be described as…

  • The mother, nurturing and comforting
  • A wise and knowledgeable guide
  • Doing more for others than they do for themselves financially
  • Be good to people for no reason
  • Often rescuing others
  • Perfectionists, with high expectations of themselves and others
  • Feeling let down repeatedly when others do not live up to their expectations
  • Not always letting go of what they have given
  • Having formed an unconscious attachment to their own suffering

Strengths and talents

  • Compassionate
  • Generous
  • Wise
  • Caring


  • “Love your neighbor as yourself.”
  • “Treat others the way you want to be treated.”

Challenges/ weakness

  • Martyrdom and being exploited
  • Controlling
  • Manipulative
  • Long-suffering
  • Secretive
  • Self-sacrificing
  • Disappointed
  • Critical and judgmental
  • Perfectionist
  • Resentful
  • Passive-aggressive

Lesson to learn

  • How to heal their wounds, especially around the need to be right.
  • How to release suffering
  • How to give what you want to receive.
  • How to receive

Ultimate life goal / core desire

  • To help, protect and care for others
  • To always be in control

Greatest fear

  • Selfishness and ingratitude